Post edited to put complete question in the body of the post, as some people do have titles turned off, making the question nonsensical

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One comment removed for being edited/changed to just a period. Please don't do that, especially as typing only a period is a common symbol for respectful silence that is used in obituaries, so it makes no sense in this thread.

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Oooh, thanks for starting this and thanks to all who chimed in with suggestions! This post has been added to the sidebar and Best Of blog!

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Changed a link in the question to "cis woman and a trans woman" as noted above.

Thanks for asking this, it's a really good question these days! We've added it to the sidebar and Best Of blog!

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